I am damn sure, everyone reading this have had faced with something that, they actually hoped never happened. That’s what we call ‘when life puts you in a difficult position’ – A complicated family relationship, breaking up with your LOVE, failure, difficult friends etc. All of us would have gone though atleast one of the above kinds of ‘craps’, as you may call.
Lets take the most common ones – Love and relationships. Youth (including myself), sometimes (I bet most of the times) think that, maybe because you broke-up with someone you really love, thats the end of your happiness. You might think, it just vanished once for all and there is no way you could get it back.
Lets say there is this girl, who would do anything to keep her partner happy. And its ok, for her even if he treats her like crap (trust me happens more than you think). Is this a relationship? The girl might say, she loves him like ‘crazy’ or whatever and she would do anything to take the relationship further. But, seriously is there a relationship to take to a next level? I don’t think so. You can’t be okei with everything right? Well same applies the other way round. So there’s that.
What do you do in those kind of situations? Say to yourself – “Yes, that’s it. I am done with all this crap” or would you just keep mourning for months long…? Well, if you think whats right for you is the second option – Sorry, I don’t wanna be rude, but stop reading =P.
What we need to understand is, its a part of life too. Good plus bad or evil you may say. Happiness + Sadness and the list goes on. The point is in all those negative situations, say to yourself, that you are not the kind of person who would live ‘with it’ forever. Instead be a person who would learn from those experiences and keep moving forward. No one can stop you until you are willing to do so. Try to find the good in things not the bad ones. *sigh*